Pamela Kay Layne


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Pamela Kay Layne

Mar 31, 1960 – Mar 28, 2018

Pamela “Tbear” Kay Witham Layne born March 31, 1960 in Wilmington, North Carolina, quietly and peacefully slipped away and journeyed home on Wednesday March 28, 2018 to be with the Lord, joining her late mother Katie Witham and daughter Chasity Lynn in Heaven.

She leaves to cherish her loving memories are the love of her life, her husband of 11 years: Charlie “Chuck” F. Layne Jr, and daughters Heather Nicole Field and Brittany Layne House. She is survived by two brothers, Frank Witham (Tammy) of New Bern, NC, & Rob Witham (Bonnie) of Glen Allen, VA, as well as her beloved grandson Ayden “AJ” Alley and four other grandchildren, her dearly loved adopted mom, Norma Horne, dedicated lifelong friend Tracy Cadora, and a host of nieces, nephews, and others.

Pamela was the rock for her family, a strong loving woman who enjoyed spending time with her family and loved ones. She was a great Momma, loyal wife, amazing Maw-maw, & adored friend. She was a true football fan, loved music, her animals, and her teddy bears.

A celebration of Pamela’s life will be held Wednesday April 4 at Louisa Moose Lodge from 11am to 1pm. In lieu of flowers, please consider contributions suggested by the family.

Memorial Service


Louisa Moose Lodge


Wed, April 04, 2018


11 : 00 AM – 1 : 00 PM

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  1. THOMAS M SOUTHWORTH July 16, 2019 at 7:53 am - Reply


  2. Née Née July 16, 2019 at 7:53 am - Reply

    Words cannot express what I have been feeling since I got the phone call from Heather. Pam, we have shared many of each other’s life’s up and downs. We laughed together, cried together and shared many secrets together in the 30+ years since we’ve known each. Even though, time, life and distance kept us apart, we could pick up in an instance just by talking or texting one another. The friendship that bound us many years ago, has stayed with us. I know you are in a much better place, my friend, but I do feel for Heather, Ayden and your husband that you left behind because I know they were not ready to lose you. Watch over them Pam as they try to figure out how to get on without you. You may have felt you were more of a hinderance to them because of your health, but your family loves you and just can’t imagine how they can get on. We both know, they will, in time, but just watch over them as they struggle with their lives and moving on. You were Heathers rock. You were the only person that was always there for her. You probably butted heads at times…because your both stubborn…lol…but Heather knew she always could turn to you. Pam, you and you alone molded that beautiful little girl into the even more beautiful young lady and mother that she is today. Watch over them and send them little butterfly kisses to let them know you are watching them. I love you dear friend! And I love you, too, Heather!

  3. Kelly July 16, 2019 at 7:54 am - Reply

    Miss you

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